Playlist con XML duda

Hola,
He creado una lista en XML de archivos de video flv y la reproduzco en un Flash.
Este es mi código, sólo falla una cosa, que es el hecho de que se inicia y reproduce directamente. Yo quiero que inicie detenido y haya que pulsar para iniciarslo. Gracias...
var nc:NetConnection = new NetConnection();
nc.connect(null);
var ns:NetStream = new NetStream(nc);
ns.setBufferTime(10);
ns.onStatus = function(info) {
if(info.code == "NetStream.Buffer.Full") {
bufferClip._visible = false;
}
if(info.code == "NetStream.Buffer.Empty") {
bufferClip._visible = true;
}
if(info.code == "NetStream.Play.Stop") {
ns.seek(0);
}
}
theVideo.attachVideo(ns);
rewindButton.onRelease = function() {
ns.seek(0);
}
playButton.onRelease = function() {
ns.pause();
}
var videoInterval = setInterval(videoStatus,100);
var amountLoaded:Number;
var duration:Number;
ns["onMetaData"] = function(obj) {
duration = obj.duration;
}
function videoStatus() {
amountLoaded = ns.bytesLoaded / ns.bytesTotal;
loader.loadbar._width = amountLoaded * 210.9;
loader.scrub._x = ns.time / duration * 210.9;
}
var scrubInterval;
loader.scrub.onPress = function() {
clearInterval(videoInterval);
scrubInterval = setInterval(scrubit,10);
this.startDrag(false,0,this._y,210.9,this._y);
}
loader.scrub.onRelease = loader.scrub.onReleaseOutside = function() {
clearInterval(scrubInterval);
videoInterval = setInterval(videoStatus,100);
this.stopDrag();
}
function scrubit() {
ns.seek(Math.floor((loader.scrub._x / 210.9)*duration));
}
var theMenu:ContextMenu = new ContextMenu();
theMenu.hideBuiltInItems();
_root.menu = theMenu;
var i1:ContextMenuItem = new ContextMenuItem("Reproducir/Detener",pauseIt,true);
theMenu.customItems[0] = i1;
var i2:ContextMenuItem = new ContextMenuItem("Reproducir de Nuevo",replayIt);
theMenu.customItems[1] = i2;
var i3:ContextMenuItem = new ContextMenuItem("Copyright BEITAR Madrid",trace,true);
theMenu.customItems[2] = i3;
function pauseIt(){
ns.pause();
}
function replayIt(){
ns.seek(0);
}
var vlist:XML = new XML();
vlist.ignoreWhite = true;
vlist.onLoad = function() {
var videos:Array = this.firstChild.childNodes;
for(i=0;i<videos.length;i++) {
videoList.addItem(videos.attributes.desc,videos.attributes.url);
}
ns.play(videoList.getItemAt(0).data);
videoList.selectedIndex = 0;
}
var vidList:Object = new Object();
vidList.change = function() {
ns.play(videoList.getItemAt(videoList.selectedIndex).data);
}
videoList.addEventListener("change",vidList);
vlist.load("videos.xml");